Sexual fetish fantasies

Sexual fantasies, also called erotic fantasy, is a deliberate fantasy or pattern of thoughts with the goal of creating or enhancing sexual feelings; it is mental imagery that an individual considers to be erotic.

Fantasy is a fundamental part of human nature. We see active imagination as healthy in children (watch them playing and you'll see them lost in a world of their own) but something adults should grow out of. Most people never do, however. Even if we manage to suppress our imagination during the day, all those unconscious passions emerge while we're sleeping.

Sexual fantasies may express an aspect of our unconscious mind. For example, fantasies about being submissive or passive (in fetish context) may be linked to a desire to experience high sexual arousal without personal responsibility.

These fantasies have great variation in their makeup and purpose: they can be long, drawn out stories or quick mental flashes of sexual imagery; their purposes range from obvious sexual motivations, such as sexual arousal and reaching orgasm, to simply passing the time or helping a person fall asleep.

Sexual fantasies are nearly universally experienced and can be positive, negative, or even both. A person may or may not wish to enact their sexual fantasies in real life; some may find their fantasies completely unacceptable or even physically impossible were they to be transposed into real life.

Classes of Fantasies

• Focused to the own partner: They are those fantasies where we imagined or we wished to do with our pair, or things that we do not have dare to request.
• Focused to new situations or people: They are those fantasies where we wished or we imagined being with different people of our partner or to include other people in the relation. Here are they the typical one whom wishes to stay with another man or woman, to the sexuality in group in trios, groups, changes of pair, etc.
• Fetish fantasy or by roleplaying: is the sexual behavior of playing some kind of character during a sexual encounter, in order to evoke a sexual fantasy in oneself and/or one's partner. Sexual roles can be very general designations of power position, sometimes abstracted to "top" and "bottom," or very specific, detailed fantasies. Nearly any role could become the base material for an erotic experience, but certain scenarios are typical in pornography and probably in real life as well.
• Disconcerting or disturbing: They are those fantasies that apparently hit our ideas and sexual concepts that we believed to have, such as to apparently wish to people of our same sex or any thing that shock with our habitual beliefs.
• Sadomasochists or of dominant-dominated: Referred sexual fantasy to dominate, to put under or to feel dominated by other people (also known as D&s, Ds or D/s) is a set of behaviors, customs and rituals relating to the giving and accepting of dominance of one individual over another in an erotic or fetish fantasy context.